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		<title>By: Tori</title>
		<link>http://hollylisle.com/stress-migraines-and-stuff-you-love/comment-page-1/#comment-9195</link>
		<dc:creator>Tori</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Jun 2009 19:31:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Holly- For some reason, whenever I try to set a certain word count for each day...I can never reach it. Am I doing something wrong? I set time aside to write, and I usually can, but I can never write as much as I planned to.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Holly- For some reason, whenever I try to set a certain word count for each day&#8230;I can never reach it. Am I doing something wrong? I set time aside to write, and I usually can, but I can never write as much as I planned to.</p>
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		<title>By: Holly Lisle</title>
		<link>http://hollylisle.com/stress-migraines-and-stuff-you-love/comment-page-1/#comment-9194</link>
		<dc:creator>Holly Lisle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Jun 2009 18:20:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Craig, no apologies necessary.  I took no offense, and the suggestion was quite good.  

I&#039;m taking a different approach to this novel just because I can---I strongly recommend working to a deadline even for writers who don&#039;t have contracts because it clarifies the work and forces decision over the habit of endless indecisiveness to which many writers fall prey.  For me, an experiment in consistent but small word counts with no particular end date set is a simple luxury bought at the price of a whole lot of work elsewhere.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Craig, no apologies necessary.  I took no offense, and the suggestion was quite good.  </p>
<p>I&#8217;m taking a different approach to this novel just because I can&#8212;I strongly recommend working to a deadline even for writers who don&#8217;t have contracts because it clarifies the work and forces decision over the habit of endless indecisiveness to which many writers fall prey.  For me, an experiment in consistent but small word counts with no particular end date set is a simple luxury bought at the price of a whole lot of work elsewhere.</p>
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		<title>By: Tori</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tori</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Jun 2009 03:55:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Holly- Taking my time with writing is fun. I&#039;m glad you finally get to do that as well.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Holly- Taking my time with writing is fun. I&#8217;m glad you finally get to do that as well.</p>
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		<title>By: Craig A. Eddy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Craig A. Eddy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Jun 2009 02:57:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Holly,

I apologize.  I never meant that you should choose a deadline that was constrictive.  If I implied that, forgive me.  My intent was that boundaries can be helpful.  From your comment to me, and the replies you made to others following it, I believe you&#039;ve found it.

As an aside, 250 words:  I did that recently on an 8 1/2&quot; page, single spaced (double space between paragraphs) with 3/4&quot; margins, and 12pt Arial font in OpenOffice.org.  It was done in OO.o simply because it&#039;s easier for me to do spell checking, and has a larger field of vision.  I later transfered it to a text editor (GEdit), then copied and placed it in a blog.  For you to say that you did 250 words in a bit over a page (and the implication is that it&#039;s in manuscript form of double space) impresses me.  You must have MUCH better eyesight than I do.

Craig
Tyche</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Holly,</p>
<p>I apologize.  I never meant that you should choose a deadline that was constrictive.  If I implied that, forgive me.  My intent was that boundaries can be helpful.  From your comment to me, and the replies you made to others following it, I believe you&#8217;ve found it.</p>
<p>As an aside, 250 words:  I did that recently on an 8 1/2&#8243; page, single spaced (double space between paragraphs) with 3/4&#8243; margins, and 12pt Arial font in OpenOffice.org.  It was done in OO.o simply because it&#8217;s easier for me to do spell checking, and has a larger field of vision.  I later transfered it to a text editor (GEdit), then copied and placed it in a blog.  For you to say that you did 250 words in a bit over a page (and the implication is that it&#8217;s in manuscript form of double space) impresses me.  You must have MUCH better eyesight than I do.</p>
<p>Craig<br />
Tyche</p>
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		<title>By: Holly Lisle</title>
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		<dc:creator>Holly Lisle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Jun 2009 02:40:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Craig, 

&lt;a href=&quot;http://hollylisle.com/writingdiary2/index.php/2009/06/16/writing-the-novel-math-hurts/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;I did the deadline&lt;/a&gt;.  It was the deadline that gave me the migraines. :D

I am a workhorse, and my entire writing career has been comprised of ferocious deadlines under pressure, most of them completed early to meet contractual obligations and to get paid.  I did the &lt;b&gt;How To Think Sideways&lt;/b&gt; writing course under the most brutal deadline of all, because I had to have a new lesson done every week, and some of those lessons are huge, multimedia extravaganzas, and all of them required me to rip my thought processes apart in the same week that I also started and finished the lesson.  And no matter how much the lesson needed, it still had to be done that week.

I did all of that so that I could hit a point where I could write a book at the pace the book dictated, WITHOUT being under contractual obligation.  I am a tired workhorse, and I wanted, in other words, to shake the yoke.

My pace---the pace at which writing is fun---at the moment is about 250-500 words a night.  At that pace, writing is a delight, I have time to consider options, time to explore alternatives, time to play.  I&#039;ve realized that it might take me a couple of years to get the book done at this pace.  I&#039;ve also realized that it is no sin to take a couple of years to write a book if you have the opportunity to do so.  I have the chance to write the best book I&#039;ve ever written, and I&#039;d be a fool not to take it.  My personal best novel ever is my objective.  

A deadline would be...comfortable, familiar, more of the same.  I&#039;m &lt;b&gt;breaking&lt;/b&gt; comfortable and familiar to explore strange new worlds in my own existence.  I want to see writing from a different perspective, and discover what that perspective offers to my fiction.

Maryse--- I have workaholic issues.  I am fighting them.  It is not easy.

Tori, Bren--- I am doing a lot of things.  I like doing a lot of things---and I&#039;m enjoying the writing.  So, yes, I&#039;m exploring a new way to write a book for me.  Because it&#039;s new, I expect from time to time to slip back into old habits that were critical to my previous survival (high wordcounts, high pressure).  But I expect to catch myself, and remind myself that This Book Is Different.  (My new mantra.)

Texanne, I&#039;m learning top-down knitting.  I&#039;m eyeing a guitar course I want to take.  And I&#039;m hanging out with my guys every second I get.  My version of the lake. :D

Leah--- EXACTLY!  If it isn&#039;t fun, you might as well be working at McDonald&#039;s.  (Not my favorite of the many jobs I had, though actually, not the worst of all possible jobs, either.)

Ieva--- :D  Yeah.  My worst day is 250 words.  So that&#039;s my baseline.  It&#039;s a bit over a page.  And it&#039;s good enough.  Everything over that is gravy.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Craig, </p>
<p><a href="http://hollylisle.com/writingdiary2/index.php/2009/06/16/writing-the-novel-math-hurts/" rel="nofollow">I did the deadline</a>.  It was the deadline that gave me the migraines. <img src='http://hollylisle.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I am a workhorse, and my entire writing career has been comprised of ferocious deadlines under pressure, most of them completed early to meet contractual obligations and to get paid.  I did the <b>How To Think Sideways</b> writing course under the most brutal deadline of all, because I had to have a new lesson done every week, and some of those lessons are huge, multimedia extravaganzas, and all of them required me to rip my thought processes apart in the same week that I also started and finished the lesson.  And no matter how much the lesson needed, it still had to be done that week.</p>
<p>I did all of that so that I could hit a point where I could write a book at the pace the book dictated, WITHOUT being under contractual obligation.  I am a tired workhorse, and I wanted, in other words, to shake the yoke.</p>
<p>My pace&#8212;the pace at which writing is fun&#8212;at the moment is about 250-500 words a night.  At that pace, writing is a delight, I have time to consider options, time to explore alternatives, time to play.  I&#8217;ve realized that it might take me a couple of years to get the book done at this pace.  I&#8217;ve also realized that it is no sin to take a couple of years to write a book if you have the opportunity to do so.  I have the chance to write the best book I&#8217;ve ever written, and I&#8217;d be a fool not to take it.  My personal best novel ever is my objective.  </p>
<p>A deadline would be&#8230;comfortable, familiar, more of the same.  I&#8217;m <b>breaking</b> comfortable and familiar to explore strange new worlds in my own existence.  I want to see writing from a different perspective, and discover what that perspective offers to my fiction.</p>
<p>Maryse&#8212; I have workaholic issues.  I am fighting them.  It is not easy.</p>
<p>Tori, Bren&#8212; I am doing a lot of things.  I like doing a lot of things&#8212;and I&#8217;m enjoying the writing.  So, yes, I&#8217;m exploring a new way to write a book for me.  Because it&#8217;s new, I expect from time to time to slip back into old habits that were critical to my previous survival (high wordcounts, high pressure).  But I expect to catch myself, and remind myself that This Book Is Different.  (My new mantra.)</p>
<p>Texanne, I&#8217;m learning top-down knitting.  I&#8217;m eyeing a guitar course I want to take.  And I&#8217;m hanging out with my guys every second I get.  My version of the lake. <img src='http://hollylisle.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Leah&#8212; EXACTLY!  If it isn&#8217;t fun, you might as well be working at McDonald&#8217;s.  (Not my favorite of the many jobs I had, though actually, not the worst of all possible jobs, either.)</p>
<p>Ieva&#8212; <img src='http://hollylisle.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' />   Yeah.  My worst day is 250 words.  So that&#8217;s my baseline.  It&#8217;s a bit over a page.  And it&#8217;s good enough.  Everything over that is gravy.</p>
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		<title>By: Ieva</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ieva</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Jun 2009 00:37:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ahem. It seems that somebody needs to read the How To Think Sideways course... ;) specifically, Lesson 7, the &quot;figure a word count you are doing on your worst day and work from there&quot; sentence.

It bloody well works and it does not stall the progress - knowing that I can do 500 words with my right hand tied behind my back while the kids are crawling all over me, helps me to do it every day (while taking two days a week off, on average) and most of the time, I write more. But that doesn&#039;t make me to change my schedule. Nothing as good as patting myself on the back when I do more, even if it&#039;s only 100 words more. 

And you can still have a deadline. Only a more distant one.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ahem. It seems that somebody needs to read the How To Think Sideways course&#8230; <img src='http://hollylisle.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  specifically, Lesson 7, the &#8220;figure a word count you are doing on your worst day and work from there&#8221; sentence.</p>
<p>It bloody well works and it does not stall the progress &#8211; knowing that I can do 500 words with my right hand tied behind my back while the kids are crawling all over me, helps me to do it every day (while taking two days a week off, on average) and most of the time, I write more. But that doesn&#8217;t make me to change my schedule. Nothing as good as patting myself on the back when I do more, even if it&#8217;s only 100 words more. </p>
<p>And you can still have a deadline. Only a more distant one.</p>
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		<title>By: Leah</title>
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		<dc:creator>Leah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Jun 2009 03:50:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Holly, nice to hear that you&#039;re struggling with the same thing I am. I gave myself a deadline for my 25th birthday, and now I feel as though I&#039;m pushing through and not enjoying a minute of it. I don&#039;t have a pub date, but I thought I&#039;d try to meet it for fun. Fun. F-U-N. With exclamation points.

Thanks for the reminder.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Holly, nice to hear that you&#8217;re struggling with the same thing I am. I gave myself a deadline for my 25th birthday, and now I feel as though I&#8217;m pushing through and not enjoying a minute of it. I don&#8217;t have a pub date, but I thought I&#8217;d try to meet it for fun. Fun. F-U-N. With exclamation points.</p>
<p>Thanks for the reminder.</p>
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		<title>By: Texanne</title>
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		<dc:creator>Texanne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Jun 2009 02:20:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Maybe, rather than thinking of things to cut out, you might want to add in some things:
A day at the lake every other week
An afternoon at the skeet range
Rollerblading
Gardening! 
Be sure you&#039;re sticking to your diet &amp; exercise &amp; meditation foundations.

Anyway, even in your distress you have helped me: seeing your mind map, I remembered that I have Inspiration and Curio on this computer.  They can make great decision trees, something I&#039;m needing for my plot.  See?  You can&#039;t help being helpful.

Peace to your house.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Maybe, rather than thinking of things to cut out, you might want to add in some things:<br />
A day at the lake every other week<br />
An afternoon at the skeet range<br />
Rollerblading<br />
Gardening!<br />
Be sure you&#8217;re sticking to your diet &amp; exercise &amp; meditation foundations.</p>
<p>Anyway, even in your distress you have helped me: seeing your mind map, I remembered that I have Inspiration and Curio on this computer.  They can make great decision trees, something I&#8217;m needing for my plot.  See?  You can&#8217;t help being helpful.</p>
<p>Peace to your house.</p>
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		<title>By: Bren</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bren</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 22:39:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In all fairness to yourself.... are you *really* &#039;taking it easy&#039;?  You have eight bazillion projects running, not the least of which are the maintenance and feedback for the HTTS stuff, the Writer Crash Tests videos you put out regularly, the Writing Craft videos, all of which take time to write, produce, film and edit.  Besides that you are a wife and a mom...  Seriously, Holly, you are way too hard on yourself.  You are human after all (unless I missed a post about you really being an android).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In all fairness to yourself&#8230;. are you *really* &#8216;taking it easy&#8217;?  You have eight bazillion projects running, not the least of which are the maintenance and feedback for the HTTS stuff, the Writer Crash Tests videos you put out regularly, the Writing Craft videos, all of which take time to write, produce, film and edit.  Besides that you are a wife and a mom&#8230;  Seriously, Holly, you are way too hard on yourself.  You are human after all (unless I missed a post about you really being an android).</p>
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		<title>By: Tori</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tori</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 22:37:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Holly-
Take your time. There is no need to rush a great thing. Allow yourself to write this novel, your passion, the way you dreamed of writing it. And spend time doing other things you love.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Holly-<br />
Take your time. There is no need to rush a great thing. Allow yourself to write this novel, your passion, the way you dreamed of writing it. And spend time doing other things you love.</p>
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