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		<title>By: Jenya</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jenya</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Nov 2008 18:54:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Holly,
I am writing this thing which gets bigger and bigger, and it is about visiting with the dead... actually, unborn. And it came out of essay, and then it is in pieces on my computer. In my mind it is rumbling and fuzzy and clumzy and too big... But that is not the only problem. It is in Russian (I live in US). It is not the only thing I write at the moment. I have my novel that was shortlisted but never published (I&#039;d like to edit it, maybe rewrite :((). I am writing another big something about two women-writers and a ghost lover, and it is not formed in my mind. This piece is more of a feeling than plan or anything else. I am also trying to edit another story that is translated (rewritten) into English and would like to submit it. I might have ADD or something :). In fact, I have a full time job and a half, teenager in college, family, house... Where did I get lost? :) And how do you schlep between stories and facts of life?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Holly,<br />
I am writing this thing which gets bigger and bigger, and it is about visiting with the dead&#8230; actually, unborn. And it came out of essay, and then it is in pieces on my computer. In my mind it is rumbling and fuzzy and clumzy and too big&#8230; But that is not the only problem. It is in Russian (I live in US). It is not the only thing I write at the moment. I have my novel that was shortlisted but never published (I&#8217;d like to edit it, maybe rewrite <img src='http://hollylisle.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' /> (). I am writing another big something about two women-writers and a ghost lover, and it is not formed in my mind. This piece is more of a feeling than plan or anything else. I am also trying to edit another story that is translated (rewritten) into English and would like to submit it. I might have ADD or something <img src='http://hollylisle.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> . In fact, I have a full time job and a half, teenager in college, family, house&#8230; Where did I get lost? <img src='http://hollylisle.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  And how do you schlep between stories and facts of life?</p>
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		<title>By: belle</title>
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		<dc:creator>belle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Nov 2008 15:43:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There seem to be 4 major elements to the dream.  
-You
-Jim
-the intermediary
-the story idea

There may be more elements that you will realize later, like directional, or color, or power source, or time of year, or an emotion, or . If any of these come up, you might put a symbol of that item in your workspace for a while, just to keep the good energy going.  

If you view each element separately, and who you are to the element, even AS that element, you might learn alot about yourself and the story idea.  

What I do when I have a powerful dream, is that I continue to process it afterward, sometimes in another dream, sometimes in meditation. 

You might
-thank Jim for his presence and let him know you want to make things right with him, or imagine yourself as Jim and what he/you might have been feeling, past and present 
-Intermediary, thank her/him/it and let him/her/it know you are listening. Then DO it, this intermediary might become a regular. 
-You, I cannot assume to know what you might want to say to yourself.
-The idea, its a gift, open it, use it, honor it, go for it. 

Very cool experience, thanks for sharing it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There seem to be 4 major elements to the dream.<br />
-You<br />
-Jim<br />
-the intermediary<br />
-the story idea</p>
<p>There may be more elements that you will realize later, like directional, or color, or power source, or time of year, or an emotion, or . If any of these come up, you might put a symbol of that item in your workspace for a while, just to keep the good energy going.  </p>
<p>If you view each element separately, and who you are to the element, even AS that element, you might learn alot about yourself and the story idea.  </p>
<p>What I do when I have a powerful dream, is that I continue to process it afterward, sometimes in another dream, sometimes in meditation. </p>
<p>You might<br />
-thank Jim for his presence and let him know you want to make things right with him, or imagine yourself as Jim and what he/you might have been feeling, past and present<br />
-Intermediary, thank her/him/it and let him/her/it know you are listening. Then DO it, this intermediary might become a regular.<br />
-You, I cannot assume to know what you might want to say to yourself.<br />
-The idea, its a gift, open it, use it, honor it, go for it. </p>
<p>Very cool experience, thanks for sharing it.</p>
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		<title>By: Tom Ballachino</title>
		<link>http://hollylisle.com/dreaming-the-dead/comment-page-1/#comment-8514</link>
		<dc:creator>Tom Ballachino</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Nov 2008 21:37:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t believe in the dead, per se. I believe when we leave this particular &quot;reality&quot; (and I think this reality is just a trick of our flawed three-dimensional perceptions in an n-dimensional universe) that we hopefully enter a place of penance and service (Purgatory) or a place of peace and service (Heaven) and we still care to heal and care for those we loved in life. I have experienced regrets at outbursts of anger or sullenness that I could not confess to in life, and I regret that I didn&#039;t have the strength to ask forgiveness or to at least express regret at my words. 

In the next life, I believe we are given the chance to purge ourselves of these regretful actions, and I believe sincerely that you have been given the chance to accept an apology. It is a gift to him to accept, and a gift to you to know you are loved by one who you had thought lost.

I know it&#039;s my hope that someday I can purge myself of the bad things I have done and move on. I think that you have helped another to do just that. Whatever happens in your earthly goals, you and he are both one step closer to the Answer, whatever you believe that to be.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t believe in the dead, per se. I believe when we leave this particular &#8220;reality&#8221; (and I think this reality is just a trick of our flawed three-dimensional perceptions in an n-dimensional universe) that we hopefully enter a place of penance and service (Purgatory) or a place of peace and service (Heaven) and we still care to heal and care for those we loved in life. I have experienced regrets at outbursts of anger or sullenness that I could not confess to in life, and I regret that I didn&#8217;t have the strength to ask forgiveness or to at least express regret at my words. </p>
<p>In the next life, I believe we are given the chance to purge ourselves of these regretful actions, and I believe sincerely that you have been given the chance to accept an apology. It is a gift to him to accept, and a gift to you to know you are loved by one who you had thought lost.</p>
<p>I know it&#8217;s my hope that someday I can purge myself of the bad things I have done and move on. I think that you have helped another to do just that. Whatever happens in your earthly goals, you and he are both one step closer to the Answer, whatever you believe that to be.</p>
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		<title>By: cathrene</title>
		<link>http://hollylisle.com/dreaming-the-dead/comment-page-1/#comment-8513</link>
		<dc:creator>cathrene</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Nov 2008 20:30:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve only been reading your blog for less than a year, Holly, but you&#039;re a very passionate person, and I&#039;ve learned loads of stuff from your workshops. It&#039;s wise to pay attention to your dreams and to your heart. Whatever this project is... find a way to do it. If there is anyway your readers can help you in any way, please let us know.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve only been reading your blog for less than a year, Holly, but you&#8217;re a very passionate person, and I&#8217;ve learned loads of stuff from your workshops. It&#8217;s wise to pay attention to your dreams and to your heart. Whatever this project is&#8230; find a way to do it. If there is anyway your readers can help you in any way, please let us know.</p>
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		<title>By: hearwritenow</title>
		<link>http://hollylisle.com/dreaming-the-dead/comment-page-1/#comment-8512</link>
		<dc:creator>hearwritenow</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Oct 2008 03:44:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It sounds awesome Holly! I hope you have a huge amount of fun writing this, first of all, and that it becomes as successful as it sounds.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It sounds awesome Holly! I hope you have a huge amount of fun writing this, first of all, and that it becomes as successful as it sounds.</p>
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		<title>By: remarkablyraven</title>
		<link>http://hollylisle.com/dreaming-the-dead/comment-page-1/#comment-8511</link>
		<dc:creator>remarkablyraven</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Oct 2008 02:36:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Seriously, I have goosebumps! What an incredible gift! I hope you spent the day writing, plotting and squealing with happy glee! 

Wonderful!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Seriously, I have goosebumps! What an incredible gift! I hope you spent the day writing, plotting and squealing with happy glee! </p>
<p>Wonderful!!</p>
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		<title>By: madcapmaggie</title>
		<link>http://hollylisle.com/dreaming-the-dead/comment-page-1/#comment-8510</link>
		<dc:creator>madcapmaggie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2008 19:02:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I vote for it really being Jim Baen. 

Go for it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I vote for it really being Jim Baen. </p>
<p>Go for it.</p>
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		<title>By: Bettye</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bettye</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2008 18:52:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My viewpoint? Whether it really was Jim Baen or your subconcious talking to you, I think this is something you MUST do. Good luck and good writing. I look forward to the results.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My viewpoint? Whether it really was Jim Baen or your subconcious talking to you, I think this is something you MUST do. Good luck and good writing. I look forward to the results.</p>
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		<title>By: arrvee</title>
		<link>http://hollylisle.com/dreaming-the-dead/comment-page-1/#comment-8508</link>
		<dc:creator>arrvee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2008 18:38:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You must do this book. You must. Not just because we all want to read it, but because it is the right thing for you. Get finished with Think Sideways and get to work on writing your heart out.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You must do this book. You must. Not just because we all want to read it, but because it is the right thing for you. Get finished with Think Sideways and get to work on writing your heart out.</p>
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		<title>By: WanderingAuthor</title>
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		<dc:creator>WanderingAuthor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2008 18:37:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Holly, I&#039;d stay out of this normally, but in your newsletter you actually asked what we&#039;d do. Although I make no claim to be infallible, this is my honest opinion, the best my understanding is capable of.

I don&#039;t normally dream of dead people either, but I&#039;m one of those annoyingly analytical types. In my experience, some dreams are the result of your mind&#039;s efforts to tell you something you aren&#039;t listening to. You had other ideas planned, and this great idea was buried in your mind, ignored. So your mind used a painful incident from your past to ensure you&#039;d pay attention. That&#039;s what I&#039;d say happened, and I&#039;m sure the idea is a great one. You&#039;re a good writer, with great ideas. So if your instincts tell you to go ahead, I&#039;d say the idea is well worth pursuing.

As for the other aspects of your dream, first, I understand just how painful a situation like that can be. My best friend died in high school, just hours after he&#039;d fought with me over something I had no choice in (we were side by side in class, talking - I was told by a teacher to move or go to the office). In such a situation, the human mind is also desperate for closure. Being economical, it sought to accomplish that, as well, while getting your attention.

It is very tempting to believe more than that - and I&#039;ve had at least two experiences I can&#039;t explain away rationally, so I won&#039;t claim everything can be dismissed so easily. But those experiences also taught me another lesson - there are things we can&#039;t and don&#039;t understand - but, precisely because we don&#039;t understand them, we can&#039;t trust them. We have no way of knowing what is real and what is misleading. So I would be very careful to set aside in my mind the feelings of amazement and awe, to make any judgment unaffected by those emotions or by any assumption this was a real visit with the purpose of giving you valuable advice.

I&#039;m not trying to attack anyone else - I respect their right to their own beliefs. This is simply my advice, from my own experience.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Holly, I&#8217;d stay out of this normally, but in your newsletter you actually asked what we&#8217;d do. Although I make no claim to be infallible, this is my honest opinion, the best my understanding is capable of.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t normally dream of dead people either, but I&#8217;m one of those annoyingly analytical types. In my experience, some dreams are the result of your mind&#8217;s efforts to tell you something you aren&#8217;t listening to. You had other ideas planned, and this great idea was buried in your mind, ignored. So your mind used a painful incident from your past to ensure you&#8217;d pay attention. That&#8217;s what I&#8217;d say happened, and I&#8217;m sure the idea is a great one. You&#8217;re a good writer, with great ideas. So if your instincts tell you to go ahead, I&#8217;d say the idea is well worth pursuing.</p>
<p>As for the other aspects of your dream, first, I understand just how painful a situation like that can be. My best friend died in high school, just hours after he&#8217;d fought with me over something I had no choice in (we were side by side in class, talking &#8211; I was told by a teacher to move or go to the office). In such a situation, the human mind is also desperate for closure. Being economical, it sought to accomplish that, as well, while getting your attention.</p>
<p>It is very tempting to believe more than that &#8211; and I&#8217;ve had at least two experiences I can&#8217;t explain away rationally, so I won&#8217;t claim everything can be dismissed so easily. But those experiences also taught me another lesson &#8211; there are things we can&#8217;t and don&#8217;t understand &#8211; but, precisely because we don&#8217;t understand them, we can&#8217;t trust them. We have no way of knowing what is real and what is misleading. So I would be very careful to set aside in my mind the feelings of amazement and awe, to make any judgment unaffected by those emotions or by any assumption this was a real visit with the purpose of giving you valuable advice.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not trying to attack anyone else &#8211; I respect their right to their own beliefs. This is simply my advice, from my own experience.</p>
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