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	<title>Comments on: DearAuthor.Com Behaving Badly</title>
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	<description>read with hunger, write with joy, live with passion</description>
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		<title>By: HaxxanDreams</title>
		<link>http://hollylisle.com/dearauthorcom-behaving-badly/comment-page-1/#comment-5069</link>
		<dc:creator>HaxxanDreams</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Dec 2006 02:47:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You&#039;re not the first person this has happened to, and I would imagine it&#039;s only a matter of time before certain sensationalist column authors step on the wrong literary toes and find out that their idea of defamation doesn&#039;t quite iron out the way they thought. 

I&#039;m not sure if it&#039;s the same everywhere, but on my state&#039;s website the incident doesn&#039;t even have to be written defamation, it can be hearsay. Too, if the slander/defamation revolves around a person&#039;s livelyhood and not just their character, or if it causes potential damage to a person&#039;s status in the community, they can face not only fines but up to 6 years in prison. That&#039;s pretty serious.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You&#8217;re not the first person this has happened to, and I would imagine it&#8217;s only a matter of time before certain sensationalist column authors step on the wrong literary toes and find out that their idea of defamation doesn&#8217;t quite iron out the way they thought. </p>
<p>I&#8217;m not sure if it&#8217;s the same everywhere, but on my state&#8217;s website the incident doesn&#8217;t even have to be written defamation, it can be hearsay. Too, if the slander/defamation revolves around a person&#8217;s livelyhood and not just their character, or if it causes potential damage to a person&#8217;s status in the community, they can face not only fines but up to 6 years in prison. That&#8217;s pretty serious.</p>
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		<title>By: eitje</title>
		<link>http://hollylisle.com/dearauthorcom-behaving-badly/comment-page-1/#comment-5068</link>
		<dc:creator>eitje</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Dec 2006 14:08:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>because if they don&#039;t work as characters that could be in one of your books, then they&#039;re not even very good at being people.  :P</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>because if they don&#8217;t work as characters that could be in one of your books, then they&#8217;re not even very good at being people.  <img src='http://hollylisle.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: hollylisle</title>
		<link>http://hollylisle.com/dearauthorcom-behaving-badly/comment-page-1/#comment-5067</link>
		<dc:creator>hollylisle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Dec 2006 14:01:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I never build characters from real-life jerks.  Why immortalize someone I can&#039;t stand?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I never build characters from real-life jerks.  Why immortalize someone I can&#8217;t stand?</p>
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		<title>By: eitje</title>
		<link>http://hollylisle.com/dearauthorcom-behaving-badly/comment-page-1/#comment-5066</link>
		<dc:creator>eitje</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Dec 2006 02:29:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i had an idea.  :)

the next time someone makes you mad, just use your character building directions to see if they&#039;re a well-constructed character.  if they&#039;re not, then they&#039;re not worth your time.  :D

if they are...  then maybe they could be a good arch-nemesis?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i had an idea.  <img src='http://hollylisle.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>the next time someone makes you mad, just use your character building directions to see if they&#8217;re a well-constructed character.  if they&#8217;re not, then they&#8217;re not worth your time.  <img src='http://hollylisle.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>if they are&#8230;  then maybe they could be a good arch-nemesis?</p>
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		<title>By: hollylisle</title>
		<link>http://hollylisle.com/dearauthorcom-behaving-badly/comment-page-1/#comment-5065</link>
		<dc:creator>hollylisle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Dec 2006 16:10:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Eitje---isn&#039;t it?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Eitje&#8212;isn&#8217;t it?</p>
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		<title>By: eitje</title>
		<link>http://hollylisle.com/dearauthorcom-behaving-badly/comment-page-1/#comment-5064</link>
		<dc:creator>eitje</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Dec 2006 01:02:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>jesus!

sometimes, the anonymity of the net is an atrocious thing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>jesus!</p>
<p>sometimes, the anonymity of the net is an atrocious thing.</p>
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		<title>By: unxplaindfires</title>
		<link>http://hollylisle.com/dearauthorcom-behaving-badly/comment-page-1/#comment-5063</link>
		<dc:creator>unxplaindfires</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Dec 2006 12:02:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Holly,

        If Ms. Little did not think she was participating in libel when she wrote her post, that snide and obviously venomous letter including her &quot;retraction&quot; certainly seemed purposefully damaging.  
        The sadest thing about this whole situation are the others involved.  The booksellers and potential readers who rather than searching out the whole truth, ate her grule and called it apple pie.  People can be lazy and will believe anything for one (or more) of three reasons.  Either they fear it is true.  The want it to be true.  Or they are unwilling to see whether or not it might be false.  
     What makes it worse is that in defending yourself, which you have every right (if not the duty) to do, people will cling to a lie even more.
     I hope none of this ends up truly hurting your career.  It is one I have enjoyed greatly and I have let many people know not only of your books and site, but of your character.  
     The truth, although it is a wonderous thing, is often a burden for those who tell it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Holly,</p>
<p>        If Ms. Little did not think she was participating in libel when she wrote her post, that snide and obviously venomous letter including her &#8220;retraction&#8221; certainly seemed purposefully damaging.<br />
        The sadest thing about this whole situation are the others involved.  The booksellers and potential readers who rather than searching out the whole truth, ate her grule and called it apple pie.  People can be lazy and will believe anything for one (or more) of three reasons.  Either they fear it is true.  The want it to be true.  Or they are unwilling to see whether or not it might be false.<br />
     What makes it worse is that in defending yourself, which you have every right (if not the duty) to do, people will cling to a lie even more.<br />
     I hope none of this ends up truly hurting your career.  It is one I have enjoyed greatly and I have let many people know not only of your books and site, but of your character.<br />
     The truth, although it is a wonderous thing, is often a burden for those who tell it.</p>
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		<title>By: scottbryan</title>
		<link>http://hollylisle.com/dearauthorcom-behaving-badly/comment-page-1/#comment-5062</link>
		<dc:creator>scottbryan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Dec 2006 19:48:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>An apology is WORSE than a liability - it takes away your moral high ground. And it mean you can&#039;t layer on the snarky comments about the other persons&#039; personal failings. Can&#039;t be a victim either, when you apologize.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>An apology is WORSE than a liability &#8211; it takes away your moral high ground. And it mean you can&#8217;t layer on the snarky comments about the other persons&#8217; personal failings. Can&#8217;t be a victim either, when you apologize.</p>
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		<title>By: Jenne</title>
		<link>http://hollylisle.com/dearauthorcom-behaving-badly/comment-page-1/#comment-5061</link>
		<dc:creator>Jenne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Dec 2006 17:06:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A fascinating glimpse into the way some minds work.  Thank you.

One thing I truly cannot understand is how hard it is for people to apologize.  A simple, &quot;I&#039;m sorry for the misunderstanding.&quot;  Have we become the kind of society where an apology is a liability?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A fascinating glimpse into the way some minds work.  Thank you.</p>
<p>One thing I truly cannot understand is how hard it is for people to apologize.  A simple, &#8220;I&#8217;m sorry for the misunderstanding.&#8221;  Have we become the kind of society where an apology is a liability?</p>
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		<title>By: hollylisle</title>
		<link>http://hollylisle.com/dearauthorcom-behaving-badly/comment-page-1/#comment-5060</link>
		<dc:creator>hollylisle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Dec 2006 17:05:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Someone on her site commented that Little is some sort of lawyer.  If true, this is a thing of beauty that pays for all the rest of this crap in spades.  On the one hand, her unprovoked and unjustified assault on me and my career is certainly costing me both goodwill and readers.  On the other hand, though, I get to be the writer who was attacked by the lawyer who didn&#039;t understand the difference between the words &quot;bookSTORE&quot; and &quot;bookSELLER.&quot;

And even as the person on the receiving end of her shit, that&#039;s just too funny.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Someone on her site commented that Little is some sort of lawyer.  If true, this is a thing of beauty that pays for all the rest of this crap in spades.  On the one hand, her unprovoked and unjustified assault on me and my career is certainly costing me both goodwill and readers.  On the other hand, though, I get to be the writer who was attacked by the lawyer who didn&#8217;t understand the difference between the words &#8220;bookSTORE&#8221; and &#8220;bookSELLER.&#8221;</p>
<p>And even as the person on the receiving end of her shit, that&#8217;s just too funny.</p>
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